Blessings

Monday, February 14, 2005

Happy Valentine's Day~

For my dearest friends who are currently single~

There are three types of single people.
* by Choice
(not willing to commit in a relationship or want to focus on career.)
* by Circumstance
(can't find the right person to fall in love with or rejection.)
* by Calling
(God has the calling for you to be single to serve Him better.)

Key to be joyful & single

1. Accept your cicrumstance. Stop complaining about being single and being ashamed about your singleness. Once you have a good attitude, you become joyful & more attractive.
2. Adopt God's standard. See other single as God's beloved.
3. Develop Godly relationship. Invest your relationships.
4. Utilize your freedom. You have the greatest asset~Time. Develop your interests, enrich your life, read more, travel & meet more people.

(Something I learned from a SOP workshop back in 2004)